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A CHILD AFTER 40 Online Forum & Community


The A Child After 40 online communities are private and intended for women over 40 who are in the process of: becoming mothers via natural fertility, IVF, IUI, egg donation, sperm donation, surrogacy or adoption, or; are already pregnant, or; became parents after 40.
This community is NOT the place for solicitation or advertising, nor is it for medical/healthcare professionals, or journalists (unless they women over 40 either planning to become mothers, or have already become mothers).

You agree, through your use of this forum, that you will not post any material which is false, defamatory, inaccurate, abusive, vulgar, hateful, harassing, obscene, profane, sexually oriented, threatening, invasive of a person's privacy, adult material, or otherwise in violation of any International or United States Federal law. You also agree not to post any copyrighted material unless you own the copyright or you have written consent from the owner of the copyrighted material. Spam, flooding, advertisements, chain letters, pyramid schemes, and solicitations are also forbidden on this forum.

Note that it is impossible for the staff or the owners of this forum to confirm the validity of posts. Please remember that we do not actively monitor the posted messages, and as such, are not responsible for the content contained within. We do not warrant the accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of any information presented. The posted messages express the views of the author, and not necessarily the views of this forum, its staff, its subsidiaries, or this forum's owner. Anyone who feels that a posted message is objectionable is encouraged to notify an administrator or moderator of this forum immediately. The staff and the owner of this forum reserve the right to remove objectionable content, within a reasonable time frame, if they determine that removal is necessary. This is a manual process, however, please realize that they may not be able to remove or edit particular messages immediately. This policy applies to member profile information as well.

You remain solely responsible for the content of your posted messages. Furthermore, you agree to indemnify and hold harmless the owners of this forum, any related websites to this forum, its staff, and its subsidiaries. The owners of this forum also reserve the right to reveal your identity (or any other related information collected on this service) in the event of a formal complaint or legal action arising from any situation caused by your use of this forum.

You have the ability, as you register, to choose your username. We advise that you keep the name appropriate. With this user account you are about to register, you agree to never give your password out to another person except an administrator, for your protection and for validity reasons. You also agree to NEVER use another person's account for any reason.  We also HIGHLY recommend you use a complex and unique password for your account, to prevent account theft.

After you register and login to this forum, you will be able to fill out a detailed profile. It is your responsibility to present clean and accurate information. Any information the forum owner or staff determines to be inaccurate or vulgar in nature will be removed, with or without prior notice. Appropriate sanctions may be applicable.

Please note that with each post, your IP address is recorded, in the event that you need to be banned from this forum or your ISP contacted. This will only happen in the event of a major violation of this agreement.

Also note that the software places a cookie, a text file containing bits of information (such as your username and password), in your browser's cache. This is ONLY used to keep you logged in/out. The software does not collect or send any other form of information to your computer.

Terms & Conditions
A Child After 40 (hereafter "ACA40”), via A Child After 40 Online Forum (hereafter “Forum”) reserves the right to modify these terms without notice. Your continued usage of the Forum constitutes your acceptance of these terms. Violation of any of these terms may result in removal of your postings and termination of your membership.
Terms of Usage

   1. The Forum is not suitable for all audiences. If you do not consider yourself an appropriate user or are offended, please do not use this service.
   2. The Forum is intended only for adults over the age of 18.  By using it you are representing that you are at least 18.
   3. You may not use the Forum for any illegal activity or to violate laws in your jurisdiction.
   4. You may not exploit the Forum to access unauthorized information.
   5. ACA40 reserves the right to modify, suspend, or discontinue the forum for any reason, with or without notice.
   6. The Forum is provided “as is” and “as available”. You assume complete responsibility and risk for your use of the forum. ACA40 does not warrant that the Forum  will: a) meet your requirements, b) will meet your satisfaction, c) that you will at all times be able to use it, d) that it will be without errors, e) that any errors in the Forum will be corrected.
   7. ACA40 is not responsible for any damages or loss resulting from your use of the Forum.
   8. Any failure of ACA40 to enforce or exercise a right provided in these Terms of Usage is not a waiver of that right.
   9. Should any provision of these Terms of Service be found invalid or unenforceable, the remaining terms shall still apply.
  10. These Terms of Usage constitutes the entire agreement between you and ACA40 and supersede any and all previous agreements, written or oral, between you and ACA40, including previous versions of the Terms of Usage.

Member Conduct

   1. Members may not post Content that: a) is unlawful, threatening, libelous or defamatory; b) violates any party’s intellectual property; c) or is detrimental to the quality or intended spirit of the Forum.

Examples of unacceptable Content or behavior on the Service include:  a) abuse, harassment, engagement in personal character attacks, threats of violence, flaming, intimidation, of any person or organization, or any other threatening behavior; b) engaging in or contributing to any illegal activity or activity that violates others’ rights; c) violating the Forum’s community guidelines; d) providing information that is false, misleading or inaccurate; e) hacking or modifying the Forum to falsely imply an association with ACA40; f) implying or pretending to be affiliated with a company or organization with which you are not affiliated, or misrepresenting the extent of your affiliation or role with an affiliated company or organization; or, g) disclosing personal or proprietary information of another user, person or organization; h) ACA40 has the right, but not the obligation, to limit or revoke the use privileges of anyone who either posts unacceptable content or engages in unacceptable behavior.

   2. At any time, ACA40  can refuse to allow a posting or remove a posting at its sole discretion. However, ACA40 is not obligated to restrict or monitor submissions in any way, or to block users who either submit inappropriate content or engage in unacceptable behavior.
   3. By submitting content, you represent and warrant that such content:
         1. shall not violate the rights of any third party, including, but not limited to, intellectual property and proprietary rights;
         2. shall not be fraudulent or involve counterfeit or stolen information or items;
         3. shall not violate any law, statute, ordinance or regulation; and
         4. shall not create any liability for ACA40.
   4. You may not submit content using unauthorized automated methods (including but not limited to “bots”).
   5. ACA40 cannot control all content posted by third parties to the Forum, and does not guarantee the accuracy, integrity or quality of such Content. You understand that by using the Forum you may be exposed to content that you may find offensive, indecent, incorrect or objectionable, and you agree that under no circumstances will FPM be liable in any way for any content, including any errors or omissions in any content, or any loss or damage of any kind incurred as a result of your use of any content. If you would like to report objectionable materials, you may use the “Flag for review” feature on any topic or reply. Urgent issues can be reported to editor[at]achildafter40.com.
   6. Use of the Forum is also governed by our Privacy Policy. See below.

Copyright and Ownership

   1. ACA40 owns intellectual property rights to any protectable part of the Forum, including but not limited to the design, artwork, functionality, and documentation. You may not copy, modify, or reverse engineer any part of the Forum owned by ACA40.
   2. Any documents, messages, graphics, images, files, data and other information (collectively, “content”) posted on the Forum by you shall remain your sole and exclusive property, and you shall be solely responsible for your content and the consequences of posting or publishing it.
   3. In order to operate the Forum, ACA40 needs the right to make certain uses of your publicly-posted content. Therefore, when you post content on the Forum, you agree to grant ACA40 an irrevocable, perpetual, worldwide, royalty-free, fully sublicenseable, non-exclusive license to copy, distribute, sell, publicly display, publicly perform and make derivative works of your content on the Forum, on services affiliated with the Forum and elsewhere (including but not limited to print, video, audio or computer media), regardless of the form of media used or of whether such media or services now exist or are developed in the future. You further grant ACA40 the right to use the username that you submit in connection with such content, if they choose, so long as such use does not reveal personally identifying information. By posting content to the Forum you hereby represent and warrant that you have the right to post that content and to grant the foregoing rights to ACA40.
   4. ACA40 is not liable for any damages or losses resulting from the Forum transmitting information such as personal messages over unencrypted networks such as email.
   5. ACA40 respects the intellectual property of others. It may, in appropriate circumstances and at its discretion, disable and/or terminate the accounts of users who repeatedly infringe others’ rights.


   1. ACA40 does not and cannot review all content posted to or created by users accessing the Forum, and is not in any manner responsible for the content of these communications or the activities of these users.
   2. You acknowledge that the Forum does not provide professional advice. Content and other material contained in the Forum are for entertainment purposes only. Content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis and treatment or disposition, including but not limited to medical, legal, and psychological. Reliance on any information provided by the Forum or other users of the Forum is solely at your own risk.
   3. You acknowledge that by providing you with the ability to view and distribute user-generated content through the Forum, ACA40 is merely acting as a passive conduit for the distribution of such information and is not undertaking any obligation or liability relating to the content or the Forum users’ activities.
   4. ACA40 does not undertake or assume any duty to monitor the Forum for inappropriate content.
   5. ACA40 assumes no responsibility or liability which may arise from the content of the Forum, including, but  not limited to, claims for defamation, libel, slander, infringement, invasion of privacy and publicity rights, obscenity, pornography, profanity, fraud or misrepresentation.

Privacy Policy
Personal information. We will not rent or sell your personal information to other companies or individuals, unless we have your consent. We may use or disclose such information in any of the following limited circumstances: a) We have your consent, b)  We need to enforce our Terms of Service and/or the social network platform’s terms of service, c)  We provide such information to trusted businesses or persons for the sole purpose of processing personally identifying information on our behalf. When this is done, it is subject to agreements that oblige those parties to process such information only on our instructions and in compliance with this Privacy Policy and appropriate confidentiality and security measures, d) We provide such information to third parties who have entered into non-disclosure agreements with us, e) We respond to subpoenas, court orders, or legal process, or to establish or exercise our legal rights or defend against legal claims, f) We believe it is necessary to share personal information in order to investigate, prevent, or take action regarding illegal activities, suspected fraud, situations involving potential threats to the physical safety of any person, violations of our Terms of Useage, a social network platform’s terms of service or as otherwise required by law, g) We transfer personal information about you if ACA40 is, or its assets are, acquired by or merged with another business or company.
ACA40 requires that members receive certain emails as part of their membership.  Members can deactivate their accounts at:
ACA40 cannot protect, nor does this Privacy Policy apply to, any information that you transmit to other Members. You should never transmit personal or identifying information to other Members.
The Forum is not intended for anyone under the age of 18, and we do not knowingly collect information from anyone under the age of 18. By using the Forum, you are representing that you are at least 18.
ACA40 reserves the right, in our sole discretion, to modify or change this Privacy Policy at any time with or without prior notice to you.  The date of the last update will be posted at the bottom of this Privacy Policy for your convenience. Your continued use of the Forum following the posting of any changes to the Privacy Policy constitutes your full acceptance of those changes.
A Child After 40
Contact: editor[at]achildafter40.com
March 23rd 2011

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